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The Opressive Defense

Gotta make this a good one since I've been a little busy.

We live in a society that sees the success of marriages in an unflattering light. A society that commonly disputes the less than favorable chances of maintaining an honest long-term relationship with someone, before getting acquainted, nevermind an attempt at getting through the more strenuous struggles.

You may assume I'm referring to the urban Hip-Hop culture that typically propels a machine whose function is to constantly bash women, as if it was a (those who allow the culture to define their identity) defense mechanism against the dangers of trusting them. Furthermore, a positive independent woman movement, typically prominent in female hip hop and r&b subject matter, is also accompanied by an anti-committment sentiment, to match. Or, one may want to say this is more of the impact of the inner city culture that is plagued by broken homes for various reasons, some justifiable others unacceptable. The fact remains, there is an issue. One that can't be ignored.

Rather than outline all the issues in relationships and the statistics that back them, I think this blog is built around the comments and driven by feedback...What do you think are the top recent phenomena that hinder relationship success, because when cuffin became regulated by the seasons, I don't think i was the first to figure that it was hinting a cultural issue! We live in a 'grind time' era but where does 'family time' go, in a society that can't bother to build with each other.

Once a commodity.
Now, a danger with benefits...
Some say it's Twitter and Facebook causing the issues. I say the Social Networking Boom only gave a clear view to a situation that already existed, while inventing a distraction from it, which will untimately prolong it, hopefully not to the point that none of us trust each other ever again.

Please speak your piece, as I've probably already caught you in my news feed venting on the topic, and remember to Pass that to the left! Waahh!


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